Creating a Supportive Space: The Role of Positive Expectations in Youth Development
Nov 01, 2024
We often see adults assume that teens will act out or struggle. However, our experience, backed by research, shows that setting low expectations based on these assumptions can create a self-fulfilling prophecy. When we expect them to misbehave or falter, it’s not uncommon for those expectations to become reality.
On the flip side, when we choose to believe in teens and set high expectations, we often see them rise to the occasion. Studies confirm that young people perform better when they feel trusted and supported, particularly in environments like a boxing gym. Here, they’re not just training; they’re building skills, discipline, and, most importantly, confidence.
It’s essential to understand that boxing isn’t just about burning off steam or channeling anger. It’s an effective way for teens to learn emotional regulation. When they hit the bag or work on pads, they’re engaging in a constructive outlet that helps them manage stress and anxiety. This physical engagement doesn’t just boost their fitness; it also enhances their confidence and self-esteem. They start to see themselves as capable of tackling challenges, both in the ring and beyond.
When we create an environment that allows teens to shine—free from negative assumptions—they often surprise themselves with their potential. Our focus is on fostering growth and resilience, where mistakes are viewed as opportunities for learning rather than failures.
So, let’s shift our mindset from expecting the worst to building a supportive atmosphere that showcases the incredible potential of our young people. By believing in them and raising our expectations, we not only help them meet those standards but also inspire them to exceed them. This journey is all about personal growth and discovering their true capabilities!
